Its been a long time since i posted on this blog (more than 8 years). I had started this blog to mainly review movies (my passion). However with the daily grind of life (yeah i know thats an excuse) and also with very less visitors to the blog, I soon lost interest and stopped posting.
However, a recent event prompted or rather urged me to post again, and i will mention on this later.
A couple of days back i saw the movie — The Namesake, directed by Mira Nair. The movie is based on the novel/book with the same name, authored by Jhumpa Lahiri. My father loved this novel, and had suggested me to read the book, and i quite liked it as well. Later when the movie came out, we really enjoyed that as well. Although its based on a bengali family that is based in the US, this is a movie that everyone can pretty much relate to (whether you are a bengali or not). I remember a scene in the movie, where the character (Irrfan Khan) had gone to meet the girl’s family for a marriage proposal. In that scene, the girl (Tabu) mentioned that she enjoyed english poetry and then …like in the olden days… recited the famous poem – “Daffodils” by William Wordsworth. I recall how my grandmother also used to make me and my brother recite the same poem and other poems, when we were young. Overall, this movie is a must-watch…do see it with your family.
Anyway, coming back to the main point — my father passed away a month back due to a massive heart attack (he was a severe heart patient). A few days before he passed, he mentioned to me he wanted to see — The Namesake movie, again. I don’t know why he wanted to see the movie, when i think about it now — maybe it was because the actor Irrfan Khan had also passed away a few days back then; maybe it was because he had a ‘premonition’. In the movie, Irrfan’s character (the dad) passed away due to a heart attack.
However, for some reason i couldn’t find the movie on any OTT streaming platform…and didnt pay much attention to it, and let his request slide. In the movie, i remember a scene where the son character (Actor Kal Penn) mentions during his father (Irrfan Khan’s) funeral — “I have so many regrets” (as he realized he had become a bit detached and was not around when his father passed away). I was there when my father suddenly passed away…but amongst the many regrets i have, one of them is– that i did not put much effort in my father’s request to see the movie (me, being a movie fan). A few days back, like i mentioned, i discovered that the movie was on my external hard disk drive.
I know this may sound a bit trivial, with all the tragic things happening in the world nowadays, but this keeps recurring in my mind. With my father’s 1-month death anniversary, and father’s day.. almost coinciding….this further plays heavily on my mind. ‘I hope Baba, wherever you are..you are in peace’.
I leave you with a picture/quote from the movie (below).